My question to myself is how have I decided to call anything loss？

　　That presupposes what ever has been called loss belonged to me.

　　I did not bring anything into this world that entitles me to anything. Whatever I receive is a blessing, even pain. I have been privileged to have temporary possession of many things but I am under no illusion that they are mine.

　　If they go away I must understand how blessed I was to have enjoyed them for a time. Buddhism has given me this frame of mind and as long as it stays with me I will enjoy freedom from much concept and arrogant pride.

　（我问我自己，该如何定义「失去」的意义？

　　这个前提是：「我必须拥有，才会失去。」

　　当我来到这个世界，什么也没有带来。是这个世界让我享有一切。我在此所得的一点一滴都是一种福报，就算是痛苦也是。能够暂时拥有这一切，已是福泽，但我明白，它们并不真正属于我。就算失去它们时，我也明白，曾经拥有，这是何等的福报。

　　「既未得之，何失之有？」佛法教导我们用这样的心态看待世界，只要保有这种心境，就能时时自在，不为妄想、骄慢所覆蔽。）